My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years, we live together and have a 7 month old baby. I’ve been staying with my parents for a month now, and he’s been flying back and forth to visit. So, we got into an argument and he wouldn’t talk to me, and I kept calling and texting but he just turned his phone off. So, I hopped on the plane, with our daughter, the very next day and things were fine after we talked. The thing is I used his credit card to make the flight but I had the money to pay him. So a few days later we came back to my parents and spent Thanksgiving with them, well that morning, he looked on his credit card account and found the charges. I told him I was sorry but I had no choice, since he’s the one who works, while I stay home with baby and take online classes. But I gave him the money for the charge. So he left, went back home and now he won’t talk to me, he left on Friday and I just want to know if he needs time to cool off or if we’re really done.



You may not leave the house and go to work, but you do have a job raising his baby, and you have every right to use his money WITHOUT paying him back. He is the bread winner, you are the home maker, and its his job to make sure you have whatever it is you and the baby need. He signed up to play house with you when you both decided to live together, and have a baby. The only thing you did wrong was not tell him what you charged or how much you spent. It is important to let him know what you are spending so he knows how much to budget for the month. I understand that you were mad when you bought that plane ticket to fly home, but you since that argument you worked things out, and you should have told him about the charge. Him flying off the handel when he saw the statement is immature. He should have calmly talked with you about it, and been more understanding that you did what you needed to do to get a break. Dont chase him. You already made the effort to talk with him and he is ignoring you. Let things cool off and dont call him again. The ball is in his court. Have respect for yourself, and dont chase him. Believe me, he will come around.
Darling your never done.. you have a child together. He will eventually call so stop stressing over it. Go and get yourself together. You have an opportunity to stay with you family and save money. Take advantage of it and focus on being the best mother/daughter/student you can be. Good Luck
Tell him “this is the last time Im texting or calling. i need to know now if you still want to be in this relationship. if you don’t reply Im going to take it that you’re done” and DO NOT text or call him again until he does. this will show him you’re strong willed.
or simply stop texting and calling. i promise he will eventually call or text once he sees you’ve giving up.
the one who cares less has the most power.
That’s your problem, why would you fly out without letting him know or for even telling him how you’re going to use the money to get there.
Good job, you just wasted money and ruined your relationship. Relationships end over money, stop using his money and get your own bank account and credit card.
It sounds like an unstable relationship. Have you ever tried relationship counsling? It helps! And move back home girl! Your baby needs to be with her mommy AND her daddy in ONE household. If he has to take a plane to get to you, that’s too far making yourconnection/communicatio issues even worse! Move back home. He’s probably just upset but sometimes you gotta work for your man too!!!
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Dont worry. Just give him a couple of more days. Hes probably just overwhelmed and doesnt know how to handle the whole mixup.