I Think My Boyfriend Is Self-centered?

1. Ed Says

   It’s been 5 years what do you expect. I mean, that’s not a excuse, I’m just saying you are not fresh and new anymore. Some guys take their girl for granted (just like with you and your bf). I would try to talk to him. One time. Give him the chance to change and/or explain himself. You sound pretty cool and you don’t need a man who ignores you and prefers his games and can’t treat you to a good dinner without you having to pay or cook it. That’s BS. I would say dump him, but I know how it is and you don’t want to do that obviously, you want to give him the opportunity to prove himself to you and blah blah blah. I doubt he will but give it a try. Once people get into routine and things like that it’s hard to break it. Not all men are like this though. Most are.

2. Belle Says

   Next thing you know he will be abusing you.Dump him.

3. Anonymous Says

   You should really tell him in detail how all this is making you feel before ending it with him. At least then it gives him a chance to realise and change his ways….
   good luck.

4. Mary Kontrarry Says

   Dump the jerk

5. lil butterfly Says

   You might consider taking a break from him. Say something like “I think we need to take a break”. Then follow through. Keep busy. Don’t worry about him, and make a list of things to do to keep you busy and do them. Hang out with your friends. Make a list of things you want in a relationship. Respect, trust, affection, thoughtfulness, etc. If he really wants to get back together with you, he will have to make the move, so don’t go there, if you aren’t ready. He sounds very “self-centered.” That’s not to say that he can’t or won’t change.

6. Anonymous Says

   Sounds like he is not the right man for you or the man you need. Think it is time to end things move and not cry because it is over but smile because it was an amazing experience.

7. Scott C Says

   i completely agree with you on him being self centered
   i think you should give him an ultimatium or a last chance before you break up with him. If he does not change his ways then why be with a self centered jerk
   i can understand the upset part. He doesn’t want you to be pissed off more that you snap at him.
   in my opinion, i think the guy should cook for the girl and pay for dinner.
   it sounds like he doesn’t get you anything at all
   The games are totally understandable with guy’s free time. i know it sounds boring but guys need time to themselves too. but do whatever is in your heart. if you break up with him it’s his lost, he will not know a pretty unique woman as yourself You go and speak your mind
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8. Ms spectacular Says

   Well personally I think he’s very self-centered and doesn’t give a damn on how you feel have you tried sitting down and talking to him about how you feel? If he continues to show no effort leave the guy I’ve had a similar experience and they never seem to change or I guess your too kind to to him and he’s taking advantage

9. Jose Says

   After some time being together, after the being comfortable fase of a guy..its hard for a guy to go back to the ways he used to be back in the beginning of your relationship. its hard to explain but the reason why he gets out of work early for friends is because he feels that he is with you too much and needs his space. Might sound stupid but you should give it a try, talk to him and ask him whats bothering him or hows everything. might not go emotional on you but if he tells you atleast one problem your getting to him. then start seeing if he changes his daily routine with you and offer to let him hang out with friends even though he doesn’t need permission but it might be that all he wants to hear is that you “approve”.. idk give it a shot but don’t just ended, he still loves you like he used to but just doesn’t know how to express it to you anymore.

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