Married Young But Pregnant.?

1. Mrs. Says

   Seems like you had expectations of the relationship and just b/c they aren’t currently meet doesn’t mean they wont be met.
   Being pregnant throws your hormones off-that’s all. Once a month my husband thinks someone else came and replaced me due to the hormonal change of the period. You will adjust.
   Begin to map out some goals and pursue them. Life’s not over, you still have a lot to offer and so does your baby.
   I hope abortion is not an option. Ask anyone who had an abortion how they feel now…it’s not worth it. I personally have 2 cousins who aborted-one had nightmares of the baby and the other is still trying to make for the one she lost by having many kids now…Try to get back with your family or create another support system.

2. Anonymous Says

   Since he is in the military and hardly every home, perhaps you should move back to your family or closer to them. He can travel to meet you when he is off and you will be near to family to help you through your pregnancy.

3. red Says

   there are alot of things you can do to keep from being board get a hobby church make friends. with a baby on the way you have it to consider. go to counciling try praying with god you can make it through anything

4. Skipe Says

   Abandon ship. You know cough* abortion…

5. ? Says

   aww im sorry that rele sucks i suggest u try talking to ur husband and u can always come talk to me if u want hope u feel better!

6. bonn Says

   Youre expecting him to fill your life with fun & enjoyment but thats mainly your responsibility. You have to find things to do to make yourself happy not leaning on him for it all. You should take some classes to get your career started so you will feel some self-worth & that your accomplishing something, go to the movies or whatever to keep yourself mentally stimulated during the day. This is normal for married life & you have find things to do to keep the togetherness flowing.

7. bunnyONE Says

   Pregnant by your own failure to use birthcontrol. Helpless and stuck because you made a choice to marry you were clearly not ready for, and I’m SURE you know this.
   Were it me? I’d cut my losses. Get an abortion quickly and see if I couldn’t annul the marriage.
   Trust me. This is NOT the way happily married couples start out…This is not the way to live the rest of your life…
   Your education needed to happen; you let him talk you into otherwise but YOU KNOW you need it in order to be INDEPENDENT in any manner of speaking in this life – or you will forever and always be looking for that man to support you…I cannot believe, this is what you want. You sound far to smart, to settle for this AT THIS TIME, in your life…
   Only you can change it and believe me babe, this won’t be JUST the “winter of your discontent” but the rest of your life of discontent if you continue on by taking no action.
   Grace

8. Melinda Says

   Ok please dont get an abortion. That is not the way out. There are so many bad consequences to getting an abortion. So please just dont.
   Im truly so sorry that your not enjoying married life. I am actually in a smiler situation. Im young and married to a military man and far from family. The military offers so many great things for wives. You will meet some amazing people if you just get out there and do stuff. The gym on post will have classes you can take, there are the library’s that are awesome truly there is a lot to do.
   Because you are pregnant you hormones will be off and that is normal. Just realize that your husband loves you and that you can work through this, that in the end you will be a stronger person. Your life will get better and you will be happy you just have to look at what you have and realize that you truly are blessed. I really wish you and your husband and that new life the best and all the happiness that you can have.

9. ? Says

   Do you have any idea how important being a mother is? Without mothers none of us would be here, i read an article recently that said it was the number 1 respected job/ profession out there, you just need to get some things in your life that will make you happy, trust me when you give birth your child will make you happy, the person who said get an abortion is an idiot, why would someone kill their own unborn child out of convenience? Anyways, congratulations on the baby and all you need to do is find something for yourself that makes you happy, believe me when i tell you i m 30 and have an education, for about 80% of us who graduated college it lead nowhere but unemployment or working in shops, there is more to life than education, if i could have a wife expecting my child i would be so happy, you have a dream life you just don’t know it yet.

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