So today we got into a huge argument and I have to admit.. it was mostly my fault.. if you’re willing to read more about the situation, read on. If not, skip down to the dashed line. Thanks =)
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Before we started going out, I lied to him about my virginity. I didn’t want to admit that I was still a virgin since he lost his at 14, so I told him I lost mines at a party when I was 15. Stupid mistake, I know. Well, at the time I had no idea he liked me in that sort of way.. so of course I didn’t think he would be hurt by this. Well as time passed, we started going out and I later admitted to him that I was actually a virgin and that he was actually my first. He was mad at first, but later seemed relieved that he took my virginity.. yet I don’t think he actually does believe that he actually did take my V (He has trust issues from previous relationships).
The last thing I lied to him about was my ex. This was before I knew he liked me and we were just good friends. Well, I told him I had an online boyfriend before (which was true, sadly) and that he flew all the way here just to see me and I caught the bus to him. But in reality, he never did fly to see me and I would never catch the bus to him. But for some reason.. everytime my boyfriend would bring this up in arguments, I could never tell him the truth.. But just today I finally got tired of him lecturing me about how stupid I was for doing that when I never did it in the first place so I told him the truth. I told him how that was something I made up to make him jealous and that I was stupid for even thinking about making something up like that. He then got furious and told me that he doesn’t know who I am anymore and that he can never trust me (even though there was no trust to begin with) and he told me that he doesn’t know if he loves me anymore.. which broke my heart.
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Now he’s being a total dick to me. He accepted my apology and everything and it seemed like he forgave me, but now he doesn’t talk to me the same way. He told me he wanted to see me and I told him I would catch the bus to his house (he was complaining how he doesn’t want to waste gas that’s why). He then said “Wow, you have money? Finally.” I mean, what the f*ck? I throw in money for his gas sometimes and I buy him food whenever we go out and I usually do cover him when he can’t afford a movie ticket or something.. and he has the nerve to say that? The hell is wrong with him?? It’s like he gets mad at me because I don’t have to pay bills and I don’t have any financial responsibilities. Well sorry for being 17. He had his time to be bill-free, why does he have to hate on me? Well anyway, the bus came late and he got all mad at me and said “I always have to f*cking make things work.” and hung up.. then he called me back and he told me to meet at the corner and I was like “what corner?” and he got mad AGAIN and acted like I was supposed to know what corner he was talking about. I’m not f*cking psychic, sh*t. But anyway, WHY is he acting like this? I thought he would be relieved that all those past stories I made up was not true.



It sounds like you started the bridge of your relationship on fire from the start by lieing. I was in a similar situation actually about the whole I want to be cooler cause i had sex first bit and past relationships stuff when really it doesn’t matter at the end of the day. M best advice would be to give you guys each a couple days to chill out. I week would be a good amount of time i think even though it is really hard to not text, call or see that special someone for a long time. Then text him or whatever and then meet up somewhere and just talk it out over dinner or ice cream. Tell him the reasons why you lied and be honest. See if things get better after a while. Usually they do if you come and be honest. You can’t really change him about not getting so mad over petty stuff and if he continues to be an *** then more on. You are only 17 and there is plenty of people out there.
Hope everything gets better!!!