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Should I Be On My Husband To Find A Job?

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We’ve been married 15 months and I have a 15 yr old nephew I took in 7 months ago, a ten year old, and a 14 month old who is not biologically his, but he doesn’t care, he loves her more than anything and is a stay at home dad to her as he lost his job a couple weeks before we got married.
We can never find someone willing to watch my nephew and we don’t trust him alone. I have shared custody of my 10 yr old son, and the 14 month old’s father is not in the picture, though we do have a child support hearing next week.
We have one car, which I got just before I found out I was pregnant and we’re three months behind on the payments. My father had a stroke almost a year ago and my husband spends his day taking care of my mom’s errands and taking her to see my dad as she has no car.
He’s been a saint and I’m positive I could never do this without him. Once child support comes in, we can focus on the car payments again and be treading water. But I can’t help but think we would have a better quality of life with two incomes.
I’d like to get into a larger place so we don’t share a room with the baby. Maybe a second car so I can stay at work later (and earn overtime) if needed. Possibly, just once every couple weeks, have dinner out or even see a movie. Get the baby into a preschool program eventually.
But, how would we initially afford daycare? Who would go to my mom’s during the day?
I don’t for a moment feel he doesn’t do his share for the family. He does more than his share. But should he be working instead?

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  1. Chuck Says

    Well, sometimes more money does not necessarily mean a better quality of life. If things are getting that tight then maybe he can find at least a part-time job nights to help make ends meet. Of course, that will take away your together time and will leave you watching the kids and working 4-6 hours a night, too.
    Life is always a balancing act and it sounds like he’s at least doing things to help out and not laying around the house all day (like husbands of some friends of mine). Maybe, the part-time thing or some online home business thing could work.
    Good luck!

  2. RobertW Says

    so, that’s why you are all down on me… you are waiting for some child SUPPORT yourself. and your dude dont work. you sound like my ex.. except for besides not working, he’s on probation for beating her up. if you didn’t have your kids, you would be able to afford your car payment? perhaps you shouldn’t drive such an expensive car, eh? trade down, someone once told me. we trust our 11 YR OLD ALONE, what kind of psyco kid is this 13 yr old? wow… your problems are great, o high and mighty one. so, i pay 100 a week to CS plus arrears, an my x lives in her parents garage, and cant afford her car, and boyfriend dont work, ‘to take care of the kid’.. sound bad when i say it? that’s how you sound! man, who’s your baby’s’ daddy, lady?! hahahaha!! wow… what a douche you are, and to think you came down on me like iiiiiii was a loser!! hahaha!! your screwed unless you get that child support huh? cant make it on your own, not with that loser!! a man is to work, that’s how it is. he dont do it instinctively, he’s a LOSER!! and you chose him, ergo, your a loser too. i feel VERY MUCH VINDICATED NOW, THATS FOR SURE!! have a great life, u wont see me trolling your dumb azz no more!!!!!!!hahaHHAHAHHAHAHAHA!!!!

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